It was a tremendous boost for Alyce/Mom to have conquered the long surgery yesterday, Her responsiveness after surgery, however, has not been good. She opens her eyes and follows noises, but is not speaking at all. She does not follow commands, but does seem to recognize some people, and has even been known to slyly smile when refusing to, for example, open her eyes for a nurse. Her right side is not moving. It's been scary and upsetting, BUT we are very relieved to learn that the neurosurgeon believes her condition is temporary, and it is not due to a stroke. There are several possible reasons for her slow "awakening" that have to do with the very large tumors he removed, the area in which he was working, and the duration of surgery.
Everyone wants Mom to get out of the ICU as soon as possible, and it is likely she will need treatment in a rehab setting for a while. We don't yet know the timing or location of any of this, but will share this with you as soon as we know.
At least one of us is always with her, and she knows how much she's loved. We even caught her sweet smile when Dad sang "You are My Sunshine" to her. As always, we are strengthened by your support and share your messages with her -- thank you!
6 comments:
Appreciating this blog so much, Nancy. Thinks me of all of you often throughout the day. Much love.
I am praying for Alyce Jean, her hubby, and her children for strength for them all to help them over the next hurdle. A special shout out to my dear former neighbor Nancy. Hang in there kid. It sounds like your mom has a wonderful support group. Denise Stanco
To Nance and Val and the rest of the family, Take every good moment as it comes! Every smile, nod, and gesture.
Dana
I am so glad the whole family is together loving your mom and each other. You are in my heart and prayers, Nancy and Val!
Diane Lofshult
I am writing this from beside dads hospital bed as he is awaiting surgery with an internal abscess. He is pleased Alyce has come through her surgery. He and mum wanted me to pass on their love and prayers for you all. Jo x
NP--Thank you for these updates. I am with you. Right now I'm in Flint MI with Lee's parents. If you need anything, please let me know. Love you. KS
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